喜极而泣

The talks at Queenway park Mac about how we liked our weddings to be like & how many kids we want is finally a reality.
My little girl is now a married woman.

Knowing Darlene for 4 years, we certainly has been through a lot together.

To name a few events we did together:
1) Bitch-slap other classmates.
2) Staying over at her place to cook some really disgusting looking pan-cakes.
3) Going Bangkok together (With tones of shopping, smoking & drinking… what we are missing is a lover boy).

I have been there to see her through a really rough & tough ex-relationship.
She seen me through a few “semi-rough” relationships.
We cried on each other shoulders more than we sat down and have a decent cup of coffee.

I will be missing the days during school, babe.
But I will also be looking forward to the day where our kids played together! Ha

To our friendship, many more decades to come. =)

Back to the wedding….

It’s just beautiful! Very sweet and personal.
So sweet that I cried twice…Haha

Darlene and her dad having the 1st dance.
This is where I lost control and starting “pouring”….
Then here comes ben with a very powerful sentence: “关你屁事!”

Oh you insensitive XXX!!!
Then after seeing I am crying so hard and I almost choked on my own tears.
He finally started showing care by putting his hand around my shoulder and rub it.

“Too late, U XXX!” – No I didn’t say that at his face.

I guess I am so damn touched as well coz I am going to have my wedding soon…
I will be missing my dad coz I am no longer a dad’s girl. I am more like a dad’s… woman?
Ok that sounded wrong. Anyway… u know… it’s just not the same anymore.

Trying to shut me up from all the crying, Ben tried to tell a joke… I think.
“Hey. What you think you dad will do when you asked him for a dance? I know. I know. Most prolly he will dance Chi-Chi”

I think it’s around this point that I am asked to give a speech about Darlene! Requested by her mum!!
Auntie very sabo leh.

Never tell me in advance & I am so not prepared. My make-up is melting due to the excessively crying just now.
Looking damn un-glam… I walking up in front…
All I can remember I said like 2 sentsence and I started crying again!!!!!
Wa lau. I am such a “Hum Bao” (Hokkien)

Control…. Control…. Cannot cry liao!