“So you think she/he is the one?”
Question that came up every now and then with so many of my friends a) getting married or b)getting into a relationship.
“The One” is quite a strong word isn’t it?
How do you define “The One”?
“ He makes me laugh.”
“Oh! I love it when he does silly things for me.”
Question that came up every now and then with so many of my friends a) getting married or b)getting into a relationship.
“The One” is quite a strong word isn’t it?
How do you define “The One”?
“ He makes me laugh.”
“Oh! I love it when he does silly things for me.”
"Love the surprises from him."
Or simply
“I don’t know. I just frozen and melted at the same time when he touch me face.”
I kind of don’t believed in the one after my 1st relationship.
I dumped that poor guy after 3 years cause I was too young to stay with 1 person for the rest of my life.
How can anyone one dumped “The One”!?
If he’s “The One”, I couldn’t have broke up with him right?
But seriously what do I know about relationship at such a young tender age?
So I was left to find the answer myself.
Many many years later, I realized “The One” does exists but doesn’t exists at the at the same time.
If you are thinking I am talking nonsense hear me out first.
“The One” exists in every relationship be it he’s your 1st or 100th boyfriend.
It’s not the way you love him (or them.. if u have many at the same time)
Be it madly in love with someone and not caring what the future holds or holding someone’s hand and think to myself “Hey I can hold his hand forever.”
A new start = A new “The One”
However since it’s existed in every relationship then it’s no longer uniquely to just 1 person! In that case, you can say it don’t exist as well right.
The One or not.
I am sure mine will be the right one
Or simply
“I don’t know. I just frozen and melted at the same time when he touch me face.”
I kind of don’t believed in the one after my 1st relationship.
I dumped that poor guy after 3 years cause I was too young to stay with 1 person for the rest of my life.
How can anyone one dumped “The One”!?
If he’s “The One”, I couldn’t have broke up with him right?
But seriously what do I know about relationship at such a young tender age?
So I was left to find the answer myself.
Many many years later, I realized “The One” does exists but doesn’t exists at the at the same time.
If you are thinking I am talking nonsense hear me out first.
“The One” exists in every relationship be it he’s your 1st or 100th boyfriend.
It’s not the way you love him (or them.. if u have many at the same time)
Be it madly in love with someone and not caring what the future holds or holding someone’s hand and think to myself “Hey I can hold his hand forever.”
A new start = A new “The One”
However since it’s existed in every relationship then it’s no longer uniquely to just 1 person! In that case, you can say it don’t exist as well right.
The One or not.
I am sure mine will be the right one
1 footprints:
When i met my 1st boyfriend, i really like him a lot. I was too young to realise if i love him. However, I knew he was never the one. So I dumped him. But of cos, he did nothing wrong, and i regretted it for year s even though i knew he wasn't the one. (Please dont let him read this)
Then i met another great guy, very patient very sweet, I ask myself if he is the one? Well, he isn't so i dumped him again.
When i met the 3rd guy, we were quite happy. Then one day, someone ask me if i can see my future with him. I thought about it for a long time and realised I am too young and probably can't see him in my future. So i dumped him. If I hadn't dump him, I could have married him.
So I met this guy which i said to myself, i wish the time can just freeze in that moment in life. Unfortunately, time goes by so quickly that we didn't even start and it ended.
Now years ago, I finally met "The One" or someone that I finally can classify him as "The One". Why i think he is the one? Because, I knew he wasn't perfect, he wasn't great but i simply just willing to take all of that and not find anyone else. But, even if you meet "The One" and you are not his "The one" the chapter will end without the happily ever after.
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